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Oct
01
2009

Pete, why do you work so much?

BY Peter Cook IN leadership

Every second week I have the pleasure of hanging out with my two nephews, Jarrah and Sam, and doing pretty much whatever they want to do. Jarrah is four and Sam is coming up to two.

Last Sunday we were sitting in a cafe sipping our babycinos and my cup-of-cino (Jarrah normally orders, and he thinks a cappuccino is a cup-of-cino, and I think that's too cool to correct), when Jarrah asked me an interesting question.

"Pete, why do you work so much? Why do you work on Saturdays Pete?"

I told him that perhaps my business model needed tweaking, I'm excited about lots of different projects and maybe I'm too scattered and not focussed enough, that when I feel overwhelmed I could be inefficient and that sometimes I procrastinate.

He wasn't really satisfied with that answer.

Why do I work so hard? Am I a workaholic?

I think all the answers I gave Jarrah are correct, but also I've just got into the habit of working hard. There is always stuff to do, and so I keeping doing it.

Currently I make sure I have at least one day a week where I do no work, don't check my emails, don't take business calls, and don't think about the business. I'm also planning to get a lot done in the next two months, and then do a lot less in the following two months when we're in Bali.

Do you work too much? And if so, why?

3 comments
Oct 01
2009

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I'm with Jarrah. Let's go for a ride. And have a cup-of-cino along the way.
Oct 02
2009

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Who me?...I just work creator type hours!...I like the excitment of taking a day off when everyone else is working. I like the peaceful wee hours of the morning. If inspiration takes me on a Saturday...I'm there. We may just be the catalysts for the optimum way of working in our flow. Kids will catch on soon enough!...
Oct 02
2009

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Do you work too much? And if so, why?
Yes, sometimes because I get so passionate about what I am creating, sometimes because I overly identify with all that I create. When this happens, I am thinking about my work when I have made time and space for the other parts of me and my life.
In the end I feel it all comes down to balance. If you are working your little socks off while other ares of your life are suffering, then yes working too much does no good for anyone!
Plus with technology these days we forget that we are not machines! I feel sometimes we imitate machines simply because they help us so much and we rely on them to get us where we want to be.

With love,

Eliane

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